"I feel hopeful and grateful.
For a while I thought we had lost everything. It makes you want to love better and live better and treat people better.
There is a great Gloria Steinem quote—and I'm paraphrasing—
'Become the man you want to marry.'
I've taken that on.
What qualities do I find attractive, and can I find them in myself? What am I missing? Can I be that for myself?"